Here is the simple reason why most men don't know how to get their ex girlfriends or wives back. They don't know what creates attraction in the female mind. Your job, look and income is not the main factor why your ex has left you. To make sure that your ex falls in love with you again there are several counter-intuitive rules to follow. In this article I will tell you what do and more important what not to do to get your ex girlfriend back.
Become attractive again Man are mostly attracted to the psychical appearance of a woman. However the most important aspect of you that created attraction in your girlfriends' mind was your behavior. At the beginning of your relationship you had some specific traits that she founds attractive. As your relationship progressed you lost some or even a lot of these attractive traits. In fact you replaced your attractive traits with unattractive ones. This is the main reason why your ex does not love you anymore. This can be fixed.
Get rid of unattractive traits First of all it is crucial that you get rid of unattractive traits. You may have heard about the saying "attraction is not a choice". This is definitely true because most women do not know why the have lost attraction for their boyfriend or man. Here are two common reasons why women do break up. -Insecurity: Insecurity is called the number one attraction killer. You have lost (most) control over your girlfriend so do not try to control her further. -Being clingy: Another big mistake men make is that they spend to much time together with their lovers. So don't be the first to contact your ex again.
Become attractive again It's time to get some dominant traits again. There were some things that go wrong in your life however perhaps your situation may seem hopeless it isn't. -Be the leader: The last five - ten years there are a lot of men who are calling them "the new men". Basically it is a way to say I am more emotional. But at the same time break-ups and divorces are higher then ever and it is not going to change soon. The main basic of being a leader means that you have a plan.
-Have a purpose: Become ambitious again and your ex will find you more attractive. There are a lot of things you can do.Go to the gym and become ripped again, if you suffer from overweight try to lose some fat, learn a new language.
From now on implement these tips in your life and your ex girlfriend will fall in love with you again.